50 shades of crazy

There is a large quantity of people walking around with different levels of mental and personality disorders. When gone undiagnosed these people enter into relationships with normal people with normal minds and those bonds create toxic situations. Once the normal person gets sucked in the representative disappears and the disordered mate begins to show signs that they are 50 shades of crazy. The red flags begin to wave to you but at this point your so blinded by the lust that you can't see the flags so you sit in it. Day by day the crazy gets more intense the lies come more frequently. You know their untrust worthy yet you continue to pour more of your attention into them. You will normally find yourself in this place if you have sex with them sooner than that you should. Sex especially if it’s good will further blind you. The crazy person is well aware of this and that’s why they move so quickly in the romance department. they have now manipulated your mind and your body. You know there’s something wrong but they convince you that its right. You begin second guessing things you would have never second guessed before. The crazy intensifies and is now coming by way of selfish acts, frequent mood changes, isolation of themselves from you, and bouts of silence. When you try to find out what’s wrong with them they will find a way to blame you or somebody else for their actions. Crazy does not improve so once you figure out a person is crazy you must not try to fix them or be extra nice thinking they will return the favor because this is not going to happen. Your best bet is to research their behavior and most likely you will find through research that they indeed have either a personality disorder, a mental disorder or both. When people display acts of crazy don’t waste your time trying to deal with it. Many people especially married people will stick with the crazy person because they took a vow and they want to abide by it which will only work if you’re ok with being miserable and married. The definition of crazy reads “mentally deranged especially as manifested in a wild or aggressive way.” Once someone displays these traits don’t stick around for it to get worst get out and stay out.  The best life for a sane person is to attach themselves to like minded people. Leave the crazies to their craziness and enjoy your life.